Ok instead of trying out a y splitter for the usb hub which may have worked dunno for sure. And after tinkering around with all the suggestions I could find from all over I bought this, figured I could live with 5 bucks going to waste if it didn't work.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00NH13S44/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1
While it's not ideal solution it worked! And now I have control over all my lights, fans, and h150i.
Luckily there was a nice spot to just run it out the back of my case and into a empty usb slot.
So if anyone running into these issues with some of the amd motherboards or chipsets where the usb headers on the commander pro are not being recognized by the system. This worked for me and now my RBG is up and running beautifully.