Solved some of my issues after contacting discord on twitter.... we reinstalled the drivers. how ever reinstalling all drivers caused my headset to revert to a normal usb headset. and i lost all functionality, how ever i gained the options for mic boost. and gain.
after installling the Cue software nothing changed.
i had to resort to a windows restore to remove all drivers and programs asociated with this headset.
Plug the dongle in, restart pc.
Plug the headset in via usb cable. restart pc.
Install corsair cue software. Restart PC.
After all this my mic was then at a normal volume for others. how ever the mic is now picking up my breathing. due to its position on my face, and it being directly under my nose instead of shorter by my mouth.