Sorry for double post but this seems pretty important:
I was AFK while I left my headset plugged into my computer. After about an hour of being AFK I come back and the boom light to show battery,mute mic and stuff like that. Well it was showing battery status and I was pretty sure if the headset isn't in bootloader mode it wouldn't do that so I tried to turn it on and it worked! It asked me if I wanted to upgrade firmware again so I just said no. Not sure what happened it just started working now.